Is Eloping Right for You? – Why Couples Elope

IS ELOPEMENT RIGHT FOR YOU?

GET MARRIED YOUR WAY

Contrary to common misconceptions, eloping no longer solely involves spontaneously "escaping to Vegas," as it once might have. In 2023 we say when it comes to weddings, the rules are yours to break!

Over time, the concept of elopement has undergone a transformation. Rather than a hurried method of getting married, eloping now represents a deliberate and purposeful approach to solidifying a commitment between partners.

The motivations behind couples choosing to elope are diverse, extending beyond mere financial considerations. For many people, having a huge, traditional wedding isn't what they want. And that's totally okay!

YOU VALUE EXPERIENCES

If you're the type of person who enjoys living in the present moment and fully immersing themselves in their surroundings, a conventional wedding's fast-paced and bustling nature might not align well with your preferences!

Let us be clear, we absolutely relish the surge of excitement from a grand and lively wedding celebration. However, the hustle and bustle, along with constant socializing throughout the day, can leave certain couples feeling overwhelmed.

If you desire a more leisurely approach that centers around the moments you and your partner craft together, choosing to elope might be an excellent match. Your day could be full of romantic hikes, intimate picnics, visits to your cherished eatery, or indulging in any of your beloved pastimes.

If raising a champagne toast while gazing upon breathtaking vistas resonates more with your style than enduring an hour of toasts, then elopement could be the ideal choice for you!

YOU’RE A PRIVATE COUPLE

You don’t like being in the spotlight, and a conventional large wedding might not align with your introverted nature. Don’t force yourself to be someone you’re not.

While large weddings suit many individuals, they aren't a universal choice. Regrettably, we’ve encountered instances where we’ve photographed weddings and noticed that the couple appeared uneasy due to the size of the guest list. They find themselves chasing after RSVPs, surrounded by unfamiliar family friends, caught up in family conflicts, pressured to socialize, and with minimal opportunity to enjoy their time together as a couple. If this scenario seems like a recipe for disaster to you, opting for an elopement could be a more suitable option.

Eloping offers a personal and intimate way for you to express your commitment to each other. This approach is particularly fitting for couples seeking something more private. The most significant aspect of the occasion often revolves around exchanging vows, and just picture how serene and tranquil it would be in the heart of a forest, with only the two of you present (and your photographer discreetly capturing all the emotions from a distance with a telephoto lens!)

YOU CAN’T HURRY LOVE…OR CAN YOU?

Eloping encompasses more than just a swift marriage; in fact, it often involves a speedier planning process. Traditional wedding arrangements typically hinge on venue and catering options, which might entail waiting for months or years.

Conversely, with an elopement, you can secure an officiant, photographer, marriage license (and occasionally a location permit), and embark on your journey in just days or weeks.

And while a courthouse wedding suits tight schedules, if you cherish nature, why not exchange vows outdoors? It’s cheap, beautiful and intimate.

HOW TO DECIDE IF YOU SHOULD ELOPE

If there’s anything the pandemic has taught us, it’s that getting married can be a magical, love-filled affair no matter where it happens or how many people attend the celebration.

If you've made it to the end of this blog post, it's probable that elopement is seriously under consideration for your wedding. Have confidence in your instincts and opt for what resonates best with your and your partner's desires!

Above all, this day centers on your commitment to one another and the creation of delightful memories. There are many ways to celebrate significant moments and spend time with loved ones on a different occasion! So go for it!

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